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A collection of sermons and messages Mark has given over the years

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Jun 1, 2025, 10:30 AM
Ephesians 5:15-21 is a summary and conclusion for the instructions that began at the beginning of Chapter 4. Verse 21 also acts as a springboard for what follows. There’s still more guidance to come! In the same way, there is still much for us to learn and practice. At the beginning of this chapter, we saw six behaviors that need to be removed from our lives and fellowship—and one behavior that should replace them. Next we saw how we have been made light to shine, exposing our own evil deeds, as well as those of our brothers and sisters—and of the world around us! That we all might repent and grow in the ways of Christ. For each other’s good, not condemnation. Here, Paul gives us several key summary points, both words of warning and words of clarification and instruction. From Ephesians 5:15-21.
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May 25, 2025, 10:30 AM
Last week we saw how necessary it is for salvation that we submit to the Lord Jesus Christ and work with Him to conform ourselves to His likeness. We need to remove sexual immorality, impurity, covetousness, obscenity, moronic talk and coarse joking from our lives and from our fellowship—because these are the exact opposite of who God is, and so what His children are to be. And He is trying to work these things in us! We don’t want to resist Him, but work with Him. Today, we see that it’s not only for our own personal sake that we need to make these changes, but for everyone around us, to the ends of the earth! From Ephesians 5:8-14.
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May 18, 2025, 10:30 AM
We’ve been learning a lot about what it looks like to imitate God. We’re seeing what the old self—which follows after the likeness of the devil—looks like, and what the new self is supposed to look like. That new self was created to be like God!—can you believe it?—in true righteousness and holiness. Changing our lives—the source and fruit of our lives—is not an optional add-on, an upgrade from the basic model. It is the natural state, desire and outcome of the kind of faith that saves to eternity. God loves us so much that He has another list for us, to guide us in our growth. Check yourselves for any of these characteristics, and make plans to remove what needs removing and strengthening what needs development. From Ephesians 5:3-7.
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May 11, 2025, 10:30 AM
What does it mean to put off the old self and put on the new? Here’s a perfect illustration. A list of things we are supposed to remove from our hearts and lives. And a list of things we’re supposed to build in. The transformation God has worked in us and desires for us to catch up with, is like night and day. From hostility to love. If only we would take the time to honestly face ourselves, then go after these things like God desires, some of us would be entirely unrecognizable—in a good way! There is doubtless at least one thing each one of us should take home from these few verses, so perk up those ears that are intended to hear. Let the Holy Spirit speak to you, then go in His strength and make the necessary corrections. Here we go! From Ephesians 4:31-5:2.
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May 4, 2025, 10:30 AM
We Christians talk about eternal security. We talk about salvation by faith alone. But I do not think most of us have a good understanding of what that really means. Paul warns us not to grieve the Holy Spirit, but in the same breath he tells us we have been sealed by the Spirit for the day of redemption. If our salvation is secure, what do we have to worry about? Isn’t God forgiving? Isn’t the Holy Spirit also so patient and kind and forgiving? From Ephesians 4:30.
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Apr 27, 2025, 10:30 AM
In the previous verse, which we looked at a couple weeks ago, we saw for the thief that putting off the old self and putting on the new was so clear and obvious. Paul has another bellwether of old-self versus new-self: The Tongue. Maybe stealing wasn’t a problem for us, but how about our speech? Yet is it fair for God to judge us for what comes out of our mouths? Can we really get control of our tongue or is Paul expecting too much from us? From Ephesians 4:29.
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Apr 6, 2025, 10:30 AM
Sharing. Do you know how hard a lesson that is for us to get? We watch our kids—without training from us—naturally battle and fight for the things they want. It starts so young! And when we get older, we’re supposed to have mastered the art of sharing. But have we? Have we learned to share as God desires us to share? Let’s see what God has to say to us through Paul today. From Ephesians 4:28.
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Mar 30, 2025, 10:30 AM
Last week we talked about the importance of being honest, transparent, and speaking even painful truths to those around us. Yet do so out of love and humility, for our own benefit and for the benefit of those with whom we speak. Paul’s next command is not necessarily directly related, though really all these commands are connected. They are all expressions of love for one another and for Jesus Christ. Today we’re going to learn about anger, both as an aid to honesty and as a danger to ourselves and others. From Ephesians 4:26-27.
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Mar 23, 2025, 10:30 AM
We know from this chapter that God intends for us to grow into maturity in Christ. We have been made new, according to the likeness of Jesus Christ, but as we talked about last week, we need to work on learning these new ways and putting them into practice. We need to put off the old self and put on the new. We saw at the beginning of this chapter that the foundation of the Christian life is humility. Next up would be honesty, transparency. We have everything we need for life and godliness, and that includes our brothers and sisters in Christ. But if we aren’t going to be honest with them, transparent, then we will not be able to help them grow and they will not be able to help us grow in maturity. Without honesty, there is no meaningful fellowship as believers. And without humility, there is no meaningful honesty. So let’s spend a few minutes talking about that. From Ephesians 4:25.
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Mar 16, 2025, 10:30 AM
In Ephesians so far we have seen the amazing love and kindness of God toward us. We are not the same people we were before we heard and believed the Gospel, and we have so many more wonderful things to look forward to than we could ever find in this life. We are a privileged people, chosen and saved and eternally blessed by the Lord. But we were made new in order to walk in the good works which God prepared in advance for us. Our gratitude should overflow in a humility that is eager to learn the ways of God. And God has given us five kinds of trainers to grow us all into His likeness. But the greatest hindrance to knowing and walking in this new life does not come from outside us, but as the saying goes, “We are our own worst enemy.” From Ephesians 4:17-24.